When
we were getting ready to go to Paris this past spring, I read several bits of fashion
advice regarding the differences between Parisian and American women. One
thing that stuck with me was the explanation that Parisian women dress
in such a way that communicates that they are cared for. This probably implies that a man is in the equation, the kind who bedecks his mistress with jewels and fringe, but of course a lover is not required to achieve the look.
Ever since, I've been trying on the Parisian mindset, thinking of how to convey that time and thought were put into my clothing choices. I don't do it all the time, but I've been more conscious about adding a scarf, belt, necklace or bracelet to my outfits. These are things I hardly ever shop for (and to be honest, I don't really like spending money on them, either), but they've been making me feel strangely complete. And it feels good to care for yourself, anyway.
A few weeks ago I was stuck at home with a cold. It was so beautiful outside, though, and I just couldn't bear to lay around in my sweatpants and watch another show on HGTV. So instead of resting, I cleaned myself up. I curled my hair, put on blush and assembled a nice outfit and headed downtown. I figured if I didn't look miserable, I wouldn't be miserable. I caught a glimpse of myself in a mirror and thought, now there's a girl who looks cared for. Ironically, of course, I should have really been caring for myself at home with plenty of fluids. Oh, well.
Either way, the effect lasted for hours (which was how long the ibuprofin lasted). I felt great. I felt normal. I felt like I was playing hooky from work. And I bought two new pairs of pants! (Thanks, Ann Taylor, for suggesting I get a head start on my fall wardrobe with your tremendous bargains.)
But the lesson that I've been learning is that it's not hard to make a little effort for yourself.
Actually, sometimes it can be a little too easy. Here's an example of how to look too put together. Check out this matching nail polish and blouse combo:
Ever since, I've been trying on the Parisian mindset, thinking of how to convey that time and thought were put into my clothing choices. I don't do it all the time, but I've been more conscious about adding a scarf, belt, necklace or bracelet to my outfits. These are things I hardly ever shop for (and to be honest, I don't really like spending money on them, either), but they've been making me feel strangely complete. And it feels good to care for yourself, anyway.
A few weeks ago I was stuck at home with a cold. It was so beautiful outside, though, and I just couldn't bear to lay around in my sweatpants and watch another show on HGTV. So instead of resting, I cleaned myself up. I curled my hair, put on blush and assembled a nice outfit and headed downtown. I figured if I didn't look miserable, I wouldn't be miserable. I caught a glimpse of myself in a mirror and thought, now there's a girl who looks cared for. Ironically, of course, I should have really been caring for myself at home with plenty of fluids. Oh, well.
Either way, the effect lasted for hours (which was how long the ibuprofin lasted). I felt great. I felt normal. I felt like I was playing hooky from work. And I bought two new pairs of pants! (Thanks, Ann Taylor, for suggesting I get a head start on my fall wardrobe with your tremendous bargains.)
But the lesson that I've been learning is that it's not hard to make a little effort for yourself.
Actually, sometimes it can be a little too easy. Here's an example of how to look too put together. Check out this matching nail polish and blouse combo:
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| That's enough now. |
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